She is Mee

I know, I know—it’s been forever since I’ve posted! So let’s catch up. I wrapped up my third year abroad and already diving into year four. I just celebrated my 33rd birthday in September, and this summer was packed with unforgettable moments with family and friends. The highlight? A magical trip to Disney with my nephews! Now that we’re up to speed, let’s talk about what’s been going on lately.

What you see is a girl who has beaten the odds. A strong Black woman living her best life. But what I see is a girl healing and fighting daily for the life she deserves. I’m battling feelings, emotions, and negative thoughts—and I refuse to let them win!

I recently took a solo trip, where I spent time sightseeing, practicing self-care, and doing a lot of reflecting. I’m living an answered prayer. It might not be exactly what I prayed for, but God still answered, and for that, I will forever be grateful.

I’ve always been a loner—the girl who knows lots of people but, deep down, often feels lonely. The older I get, the more I realize you do need supportive people around you. I used to think I was fine being hyper-independent, but I’m not. Sometimes I need help, and asking for it has been the hardest choice.

This year is almost over, and although I haven’t accomplished everything on my bingo card, I refuse to beat myself up over it. I did things I never thought I would, and that’s something to celebrate. What have you accomplished so far in 2024?